“My parents told me all about it as I grew up, but not all in one go. It came out in bits and pieces, part of the family conversation, really.”
She said she didn’t realise the gravity of the situation until moving to New Zealand.
“We were unpacking all the boxes and I saw the press cuttings. That’s when I realised what a huge deal it was. But it didn’t stir up any emotions of horror or anything. To be honest, I thought it was rather cool.”
Humphries was diagnosed with grade four brain cancer in 2020 when she started getting headaches.
Her mother died from breast cancer only a few months before her diagnosis, and Humphries said on Facebook she thought her headaches were due to the “stress of losing Mum”.
She said she had tests and a CT scan “showed a large 5cm mass/tumour on my left side of my brain” and that she “went into surgery to remove the tumour within 24 hours”.
She told the Mail on Sunday after her diagnosis: “There is no point feeling angry or blaming anything. We have just had a terrible amount of bad luck.
Our beautiful Abbie peacefully passed away yesterday, surrounded by loved ones. She fought so hard with so much strength…
Posted by Karl Sundgren on Sunday 8 December 2024
“I usually choose to look at the positive side of everything. It makes everyone feel better.”
A Givealittle page was started in June 2021 after Abbie was unable to work but faced further treatment.
The page said her surgery had removed a glioblastoma tumour and it was followed up with 30 rounds of surgery and daily chemotherapy.
Her death was announced by husband Karl Sundgren in a Facebook post, who said, “Abbie was so strong and her infectious smile will forever remain in our hearts.”
“She fought so hard with so much strength and grace for over four years and can finally rest.”
A service celebrating her life will take place in Auckland on Saturday.
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